People like to make their own judgements and praise self. However, I now try to make less negative judgements on others and give the benefit of doubt on those whom I’ve earlier disagree with. With this, I find myself feeling less stress and less irritated on an unpleasant experience. My expectations are lower and I can focus on how to improve on the issue rather than find fault.
【That is wonderful! When you think of improvement, it means “how can I help?”, it is the bodhisattva action.】