Since learning Buddhist, I’m practicing 随喜功德。
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Last
time, I only give exact amount to everyone.
And now, I only give extra amount to anyone, including taxi driver as a token of appreciate for fetching me .
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Before
this, also not easy to let go/ forgive people especially when I found that
they’re wrong.
And now, I started aware that my life is easy going if I forgive people & focus on others good point (instead of weak point )
This year I delegated one urgent project to my consultant & ended up receiving client complaint about my consultant
For one final follow up session, the situation was critical as my colleague still could not accept external auditor findings & not willing to assist client for some findings.
As our timing was too close to the next audit & we must coach client to take action in order to close the case, so I decided to show my angriness during the meeting & make it clear to my consultant that we must quickly rectify the issues, instead of keep arguing.
I knew my angriness would definitely hurt my consultant felling, especially said harsh words in front of client. But I need to do it in order to get things done within 2 working days.
After 10 minutes, I decided to walk out from the meeting room & let my consultant to proceed with the follow up session. While I walk down to ground floor, I was regret & keep asking myself : - Why I couldn’t manage myself just now ?
- Why I couldn’t say in a nice way ?
- Why I couldn’t be humored & let people work happily ?
Word already said out & the situation was over. My journey could not reverse back & remind myself that next time I will handle myself well.
After the incident, I also did not blame my consultant for not doing well on our project. The only thing that I can do is to accept the fact & kept moving.
Prepared by Lily Chee
27 Aug, 2019
【It is important that you clear that you are still unable to manage yourself in this current situation. Keep doing 108 bows and vow to change it.】
